How to have a life you love – Step 1

How to have a life you love – Step 1

 

You are the only one who can decide your perfect life.  If you are like most of us your life has been anything but prefect and when you look at it you see lots of pain and struggle. 

 

Do you believe that you can have a life that you love?  If you don’t believe it then there is little chance that you will ever have a life you dream of.  You might make some half hearted attempts to improve your lot.  But if you have an under lying believe that you will always struggle and suffer then you won’t have the motivation and drive to take the actions you need to fulfil your dreams.

 

One day I had a wake up call and I discovered that I was expecting and believing that struggle and stress were all I had to look forward to in life.  I had big hopes and dreams but I did not truly believe that I could achieve them.  And this muddied my thinking and made it difficult for me to truly know what it was that I wanted

 

So the first thing I had to do was install a belief that I could have a wonderful.  I did this with affirmations.  My first affirmation was – “I can have a life I love”  I said this over and over and over, to start with it had no conviction what so ever – I was just going through the motions saying.  But as I kept saying it I started to rewire my brain and I began to actually believe that it might be true, and as I kept saying it I started to fill more than maybe it could be true, to I total deserve to have a life I love.

 

So step one is to find out what is lurking in your subconscious –what is it you believe about your life and your future? Does it look bright or bleak?

 

You might believe you are not good enough, or worthy enough, or smart enough, or have enough money. 

 

Ask yourself what is the one thing that is holding me back from having a life that I love?

 

Whatever that is make a positive affirmation of it and start saying it hundreds of times, keep saying it until you feel a shift and start to believe it, then say it some more and then some more.

 

Next time we will start to look at what you really want in life.  Cause you have to know what you want before you can have it.

 

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